Dr Tammy Oluyori

My Approach

Before anything else, I believe in the importance of safety, including emotional and relational safety, and the right to move at your own pace. Everything I do is built on that foundation.

Compassion First

Compassion is not something I practise occasionally;  it is the lens through which I approach every aspect of my work. This means treating you with genuine warmth and care, holding your struggles without judgement, and helping you begin to extend that same compassion to yourself.

Relational at Heart

I believe that healing happens in relationship. For many people, particularly those who have experienced trauma, the therapeutic relationship itself becomes part of the medicine. I take that responsibility seriously, and I work hard to create a space where you feel genuinely safe to be yourself. Within that safety, we’ll also identify what you want from this work: together we set meaningful goals and revisit them throughout our journey, so our time stays connected to what matters most to you.

Rooted in the Present, Curious About the Past

My work focuses on what is happening for you in the here and now: the symptoms, the patterns, and the coping strategies that may be keeping you stuck. From there, we gently explore the root causes: the earlier experiences and unmet needs that may be shaping your present life in ways you haven’t yet been able to see clearly.

You Are the Expert

Above all, I hold one belief: you are the expert in your own story. No one knows your experience the way you do. I think of it like writing a book. You already know the chapters that have been written, your past. The chapter you’re living now, you can describe better than anyone, and I’m here to help you make sense of it. And the chapters still unwritten? Those are entirely yours to author. You decide where the story goes; I’m here to support your vision and walk alongside you as you write it. You are in the driver’s seat, and I’m beside you, helping you find the way to where you want to arrive.

Connecting You to Your Own Wisdom

I believe that people possess a deep inner wisdom, and that much of what therapy does is help us reconnect with it. My hope is that, by the time our work together ends, you leave knowing and deeply understanding yourself: able to tap into your own inner wisdom, equipped with practical tools and skills to navigate whatever life brings, and free to live in a way that aligns with your values and your sense of purpose. That understanding, and those tools, are yours to keep.

Therapeutic approaches I may draw on

Different people need different approaches. These are some of the frameworks I am trained in; we decide what may be appropriate based on an understanding of you and your circumstances, rather than asking you to choose a therapy model before we meet.

Explore the 9 therapy approaches

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)

CBT empowers you to identify and modify unhelpful thought patterns and behaviours, developing practical strategies for positive change.

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Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT)

CFT guides you to cultivate self-compassion and helps you manage and regulate difficult emotions, particularly shame and self-criticism.

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Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

ACT encourages accepting thoughts and feelings without judgment, using mindfulness-based skills and commitment to values-aligned action.

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Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR)

EMDR facilitates the processing and healing of traumatic experiences through guided bilateral stimulation including eye movements.

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Schema Therapy

Schema Therapy dives deep into lifelong patterns and beliefs influencing how you perceive yourself and relate to others.

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Internal Family Systems (IFS)

IFS identifies and harmonises different aspects of your internal self, promoting inner balance and reducing internal conflict.

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Interpersonal Psychotherapy (IPT)

IPT enhances emotional well-being by addressing and improving relationships, focusing on interpersonal dynamics and positive relational changes.

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Humanistic Counselling and Psychotherapy

Humanistic therapy provides a supportive space for personal growth and self-exploration, fostering deeper self-understanding.

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Solution Focused Therapy (SFT)

SFT concentrates on your strengths and solutions for positive change, collaboratively working toward goals aligned with your aspirations.

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“My aim is not for you to need me forever. It’s for you to discover that you needed yourself all along.”